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Not Every Deer Is a Danger: A Lesson in Self-Awareness change fear habit stress

This morning, I was enjoying a quiet morning at home, sipping coffee, basking in the silence and stillness. 

My husband and two of our kids are already at the cabin, because that’s what Minnesotans do when the calendar says “July 4” and the mosquitoes say “party time.” 

My other daughter spent the...

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Just because it rains, it doesn’t have to pour change efficiency habit productivity

This past Tuesday afternoon, I wrapped up a productive client meeting downtown, packed up my laptop, files, and water bottle, and headed home feeling efficient and accomplished.

Then came Wednesday morning. Coffee in hand, I sat down to start the day … only to realize my laptop charging cord was st...

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From Failure to Fresh Salad: A Surprising Lesson in Resilience change growth having what matters productivity

A few weeks ago, I shared a photo of my backyard lettuce. It wasn’t a pretty picture – droopy leaves, sad little stems, and a serious case of what looked like gardening failure.

After planting with high hopes, I watched the seedlings wilt in the summer heat, and I started to mentally write them off...

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Creativity Day: What If This Is the Key to Sustainable Success? change growth mindset performance

When was the last time you did something creative - not to produce, perfect, or perform, but simply to play?

This Friday, May 30 is National Creativity Day, a reminder that creativity isn’t just for artists, musicians, or designers. Creativity belongs to all of us. And for those of us in law - wher...

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Lettuce Lessons: A Gardening Fail Led To Big Learning change growth habit productivity

This week, I tried something new: growing vegetables. Specifically, lettuce. I’ve always loved the idea of stepping out into the backyard and grabbing a few fresh leaves for a salad. Simple. Healthy. Satisfying.

So this past Tuesday evening, my husband Ryan and I pulled out the starter plants I bou...

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Why ‘Follow Your Passion’ Isn't Always the Best Advice: A Smarter Way to Thrive in Law change confidence growth habit

It’s that time of year again - the end of the semester. I’ve been reflecting on the students (almost all 3L’s) in our upper-level, two-credit “Well-Being and Professional Formation” course at the University of St. Thomas School of Law. It was an honor to co-teach with Professor Jerry Organ and to wa...

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Walk the Walk: A Simple Step Toward Lawyer Well-Being change habit health simplicity

Today, the first Wednesday of April, is National Walking Day!

When you think of powerful well-being practices for lawyers, walking might not be the first thing that comes to mind, but maybe it should be.

In the fast-paced, high-pressure world of legal practice, we’re often glued to our desks, imme...

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Stretching Your Brain (and Your Comfort Zone): The Power of Learning Something New change fear growth mindset

When’s the last time you did something completely new?

Recently, I found myself standing in an empty church sanctuary, surrounded by over 20 handbells, wearing fancy headphones, and trying not to mess up my part in a professional music recording.

Here’s the backstory: a friend of mine coordinate...

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How a Single Hour Can Transform Your Daily Rhythm and Your Career change growth having what matters mindset

This past Sunday, we all set our clocks forward by one hour. It’s a tiny shift - just 60 minutes - but it has an undeniable impact. The mornings feel darker, the evenings stretch longer, and for a few days, our routines feel slightly off. But then, almost without noticing, we adjust.

This small, de...

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Surviving the Deep Freeze: Learning About Resilience change growth mindset strength

A couple of weeks ago, Minnesota was in a deep freeze - schools were closed, my weather app showed -15°F with a "real feel" of -30°F, and I had to bundle up in a stocking cap and winter coat just to step outside and head to the law school to teach (law school classes are never canceled, it seems). 

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Leading Through Complexity: The Well-Being Advantage for Lawyers change decision fatigue fear self-care

Lately, I’ve been feeling the weight of complexity - both in the legal profession and in the world around us. Maybe you are, too. There’s so much happening at once, and it can feel overwhelming to juggle competing priorities while trying to stay focused, effective, and even-keeled.

In moments like ...

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EsquireWell Turns 3! Join Me in Celebrating Reinvention & Reflection change growth mindset vulnerability

This week marks a personal milestone: I’m celebrating three years in business! Happy birthday to EsquireWell!

With this anniversary, I’ve taken a step back to think about what’s working, what I want to keep, and where I’d like to make some changes. I’ve refreshed my website (you can check it out he...

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