How A Little Connection Goes A Long Way emotional intelligence habit happiness performance well-being

My husband and I take an annual trip to Austin, Texas, to see dear college friends. 

The trip was everything I needed: good food (can you ever have too many tacos?), good music, driving and walking through beautiful scenery, lots of hot tub time, and late nights filled with laughter and conversatio...

Continue Reading...
Creativity Day: What If This Is the Key to Sustainable Success? change growth mindset performance

When was the last time you did something creative - not to produce, perfect, or perform, but simply to play?

 May 30 is National Creativity Day, a reminder that creativity isn’t just for artists, musicians, or designers. Creativity belongs to all of us. And for those of us in law - where logic, str...

Continue Reading...
🚲 What Riding Bikes Taught Me About Leadership 🚲 efficiency growth performance strength

During my little sister’s birthday, I was looking through old photos, and I found one that really made me pause. It’s a picture of us as kids, riding our bikes. I’m in front, glancing back over my shoulder, and she’s behind me, looking up and following my lead.

That simple image spoke volumes abo...

Continue Reading...
The Secret to Disagreeing Without Being Disagreeable confidence growth mindset performance

Let’s be real - lawyers are trained to argue. 

We build cases, poke holes in opposing arguments, and advocate fiercely. But outside of the courtroom? How we disagree matters just as much as whether we’re “right.”

I was scrolling Instagram the other day and I saw this quote by Adam Grant:

“Thought...

Continue Reading...
The Power of Mentorship: Lessons I Learned from My Mentor confidence growth performance productivity

Great mentoring can change everything, and I’ve experienced that firsthand.

When I arrived at the University of Pennsylvania to pursue my master’s in social work, I felt like I had landed on another planet. I wasn’t just out of my comfort zone—I couldn’t even see it in the rearview mirror. Moving f...

Continue Reading...
Engaged But Exhausted: The Hidden Risks of Being "On" All the Time health performance productivity self-care

Ever wonder if you are super engaged, super burnt out, or maybe even both?

Once, I had an exhilarating (and exhausting) schedule that started bright and early at 6:45 a.m. logging in for a speaking engagement for the Bar Association of the Maldives alongside my friend and Chief Wellbeing Officer at...

Continue Reading...
Navigating the State Fair of Life: Choices, Boundaries, and Well-Being for Legal Professionals goals having what matters performance stress

The Minnesota State Fair (the “Great Minnesota Get-Together”), is an annual tradition for our family, filled with all the sensory delights you could imagine—mouth-watering food, endless activities, and a vibrant atmosphere. 

The State Fair is a quintessential celebration of everything we love about...

Continue Reading...
Full Circle: How Merry-Go-Rounds Teach Us About Breaking Old Habits change growth habit performance

Every year since the kids were small, we stop by the annual festival in our town, eat some “fair food”, check out the vendors, and let the kids ride a few carnival rides.

This got me thinking about the merry-go-rounds that we all see at every carnival.

For you history buffs: the merry-go-round, al...

Continue Reading...
Fireworks and Feelings: A Personal Story to Light Up Your Emotional Intelligence! growth mindset performance stress

Every year, my family and I have a tradition of watching fireworks from our pontoon on the lake at our cabin (a very Minnesotan thing to do!). Once, all five of us together with my husband’s father, cooler weather, and (almost) no mosquitoes - a small miracle. 

As we all sat together, mesmerized by...

Continue Reading...
Break Free From These 5 Obstacles to Your Success and Well-Being goals habit holidays performance

We live in a free country (so much gratitude to those who serve and have served to make that true), but sometimes, in our personal and professional lives, we feel anything but free.

Sometimes we feel trapped by stories we tell ourselves and old ways of thinking and doing. Our habits and routines, ...

Continue Reading...
Embrace the Habits of Elite Athletes: A Guide for Lawyers and Legal Professionals confidence growth performance work/life balance

Heidi Brown, author of "The Flourishing Lawyer," was a guest expert on the EsquireWell Academy Monthly Masterclass.

We had such a fabulous discussion about the “Lawyer’s Peak Performance Playbook” - how to unleash your inner champion through mind, mood, and motion.

Something that I’ve been really ...

Continue Reading...
Rethinking Sleep: A Necessity for Legal Professionals habit health performance self-care

How often have we heard or even said to ourselves, "I'll sleep when I'm dead"? 

It's a common refrain in the legal profession, where long hours and late nights are often worn as badges of honor. But at what cost? 

Because sleep is so important, I invited my dear friend and EsquireWell sleep expert...

Continue Reading...
1 2

Are you subscribed to receive Kendra’s weekly newsletter?

Be the first to receive Kendra’s articles delivered straight to your inbox!

You can unsubscribe at any time!