What’s In Your Carry On? (And What’s Weighing You Down?) authenticity confidence efficiency emotional intelligence goals growth happiness having what matters productivity resilience well-being Sep 18, 2025

I always enjoy when I can give one of my favorite presentations: “From Self-Doubt to Self-Confidence in the Legal Profession: Imposter Syndrome in the Legal Profession.” I never tire of this topic. No matter the audience—whether new associates at orientation or seasoned partners ...

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National Wellness Month + Labor Day = The Perfect Time to Recharge having what matters stress well-being work/life balance Aug 29, 2025

 I love that August is National Wellness Month.

Even though I'm writing this as the “official” month is ending, it’s a good reminder: wellness doesn’t live in one month. But it can feel like we may need it most in these shifting seasons, when routines speed up and life asks more...

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From Failure to Fresh Salad: A Surprising Lesson in Resilience change growth having what matters productivity Jun 12, 2025

Some of you may remember that I previously shared a photo of my backyard lettuce. It wasn’t a pretty picture – droopy leaves, sad little stems, and a serious case of what looked like gardening failure.

After planting with high hopes, I watched the seedlings wilt in the summer he...

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The Long Weekend Your Brain Has Been Waiting For happiness having what matters health work/life balance May 23, 2025

I did something rare and wonderful that we often talk about, but never follow through with: I took myself out on a solo date.

My husband and son headed to our family cabin, our daughters are studying abroad, and I have just a couple more meetings and projects to wrap up today fr...

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How a Single Hour Can Transform Your Daily Rhythm and Your Career change growth having what matters mindset Mar 14, 2025

It happens twice a year; we all set our clocks forward or back by one hour. It’s a tiny shift - just 60 minutes - but it has an undeniable impact. The mornings feel darker, the evenings stretch longer, and for a few days, our routines feel slightly off. But then, almost without n...

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Your Heart Works Hard for You: Are you returning the favor? growth happiness having what matters health Feb 21, 2025

A few years ago, I had one of those relentless weeks - the kind where every minute felt accounted for before the day even began. 

Client calls, urgent emails, back-to-back meetings, late-night work … and no time to even think about taking care of myself. I told myself I would ca...

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When Life Sends You a Sign (Literally): A Lesson in Joy happiness having what matters mindset simplicity Jan 31, 2025

Have you ever noticed a theme emerging in your life? Maybe it's something subtle, like a word, a feeling, or an experience that seems to pop up repeatedly, as if it’s trying to tell you something. These themes often point to areas of growth, insight, or even just simple reminders...

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Outsmart Yourself: A Gift to Your Future Self habit having what matters holidays well-being Dec 06, 2024

 Conferences are always a mix of connection and chaos, so I’ve developed a few habits to make things run smoother.

Take my nametag, for example. After forgetting it too many times, I now hang it on my hotel room door at night before I go to bed and put my bag and anything else I...

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What Adoption Taught Me About the Power of Belonging in Law happiness having what matters mindset vulnerability Nov 22, 2024

(This note is a little more personal, but it also ties into our legal workplaces and one of the main reasons I do the work I do.)

National Adoption Day is a day close to my heart. As the mom of three incredible children - two of whom are adopted - I’ve seen firsthand and lived t...

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Falling Leaves, Rising Stress? EQ Can Help You Stay Grounded change happiness having what matters stress Oct 18, 2024

 When the fall season kicks into high gear, many lawyers and legal professionals find themselves dealing with increased stress. Workloads often ramp up with new cases, deals closing, budget and compensation planning, onboarding new associates and laterals, and so on, and so on. O...

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Navigating the State Fair of Life: Choices, Boundaries, and Well-Being for Legal Professionals goals having what matters performance stress Aug 30, 2024

The Minnesota State Fair (the “Great Minnesota Get-Together”), is an annual tradition for our family, filled with all the sensory delights you could imagine—mouth-watering food, endless activities, and a vibrant atmosphere. 

The State Fair is a quintessential celebration of ever...

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Seasons of life and work: It’s not about having it all; it’s about having what matters! change happiness having what matters self-care work/life balance Feb 05, 2024

I’m always watching for themes and patterns, and one thing that’s been coming up this last week in questions following the presentations I’m giving and in my private coaching is the theme of “seasons.”

I’m talking about seasons of life and work, and maybe I’m noticing it because...

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