It’s evaluation season. Annual reviews are being written, calibration meetings are on the calendar, and in the next few weeks a lot of lawyers will sit across from someone and hear how their year went.

What happens in the ten seconds after that moment shapes a career more than t...

Saturday, 10/10 is World Mental Health Day, and this year’s theme is the one I’d choose for the legal profession if I could choose only one: “Lived Experiences Heard: Real Voices, Real Change.”

Here is why those words matter so much in law.

What the Profession Just Learned Abou...

Every other quarter, work and life take turns being demanding. Q4 is the one where they peak together.

Year-end deadlines, billing pushes, matters that need to close by December 31, and performance conversations all land in the same twelve weeks as Thanksgiving, school concerts,...

September is a second January in the legal profession. New associates arrive, students start law school, and experienced lawyers step into new roles, new teams, and new firms.

Before founding EsquireWell, I spent years in law school career development and law firm professional d...

Every August and September, a new class of associates walks into law firms across the country carrying two things: a JD they worked years for, and almost no preparation for what the first year of practice actually demands.

Orientation will handle the logistics, covering things l...

This week I’m in Dallas speaking at a law school orientation about aligning your career with your values and strengths. The same week, my daughter Allison starts law school.

A couple of weeks ago our family was in El Salvador, where two other young women are pursuing legal educa...

“I was fine all day. Then I snapped at someone over nothing.”

I hear that from legal professionals constantly, usually with a little embarrassment attached. Right alongside a second version: “I had the whole day blocked to work on the thing that actually matters. I never got to ...

Something important is happening in the way this profession talks about well-being.

I noticed it on the very first day of the Professional Development Consortium Summer Conference in Atlanta last week, sitting in a session where "shared responsibility" came up. I remember thinki...

For years, the standard advice on imposter syndrome has been a version of the same message: silence your inner critic, push past self-doubt, "fake it until you make it."

If you've tried this approach, you already know how well it works, which is to say, not very well at all.

Ro...

Somewhere on your team right now, someone knows something that isn't being said. Not because they're withholding, but because they believe that openly raising mistakes, blind spots, and missteps won't be met with support, but with judgment.

It's a dynamic that Amy Edmondson, a r...

In 2017, the National Task Force on Lawyer Well-Being published a report that made a statement most of the profession wasn't ready to hear: "To be a good lawyer, one has to be a healthy lawyer."

The report went further. It argued that well-being is an indispensable part of a law...

People don't disengage because they stop caring. They disengage because they no longer feel safe enough to say what they need.

It starts small. A schedule conflict you don't mention because you don't want to look inflexible. A concern about a case strategy you keep to yourself b...