Engaged But Exhausted: The Hidden Risks of Being "On" All the Time health performance productivity self-care Nov 08, 2024

Ever wonder if you are super engaged, super burnt out, or maybe even both?

Once, I had an exhilarating (and exhausting) schedule that started bright and early at 6:45 a.m. logging in for a speaking engagement for the Bar Association of the Maldives alongside my friend and Chief ...

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EsquireWell Turns 3! Join Me in Celebrating Reinvention & Reflection change growth mindset vulnerability Oct 25, 2024

Happy birthday to EsquireWell!

With this anniversary, I’ve taken a step back to think about what’s working, what I want to keep, and where I’d like to make some changes. I’ve refreshed my website (you can check it out here), updated my logo, and have exciting plans in the works ...

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Falling Leaves, Rising Stress? EQ Can Help You Stay Grounded change happiness having what matters stress Oct 18, 2024

 When the fall season kicks into high gear, many lawyers and legal professionals find themselves dealing with increased stress. Workloads often ramp up with new cases, deals closing, budget and compensation planning, onboarding new associates and laterals, and so on, and so on. O...

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World Mental Health Day: Because Work is Better with Friends health holidays well-being work/life balance Oct 09, 2024

Happy World Mental Health Day! As we take a moment today to shine a light on the importance of mental health, there’s something we sometimes overlook: how friendships, especially in the workplace, can play a huge role in our overall well-being. 

As lawyers and legal professional...

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Sleep Smart, Work Smart: The Science Behind Better Rest for Lawyers habit health self-care work/life balance Oct 04, 2024

Okay, I have to confess: I am a total nerd when it comes to learning. 

Thinking back, one specific memory comes to mind; I was giddy - and I mean that in the most literal sense (like, standing outside the doors when they opened so I could get a front row seat) - spending two ful...

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World Gratitude Day: The Simple Practice That Could Change Your Legal Career authenticity happiness mindset vulnerability Sep 20, 2024

 World Gratitude Day (September 21) is the perfect time to reflect on how gratitude can profoundly impact our well-being, especially in the legal profession. (And maybe shoot a note of gratitude to your colleagues, team, or loved ones today or tomorrow if you have a moment!)

Law...

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Pumpkin Muffins, Law, and Life: Why Well-Being and EQ are Essential Ingredients happiness mindset well-being work/life balance Sep 13, 2024

 While putting together the ingredients for pumpkin muffins, I couldn’t help but think about how being a lawyer or a legal professional is a lot like baking. Stick with me here - this will make more sense in a moment! 

The pumpkin muffins I made for our daughters this morning!...
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Navigating the State Fair of Life: Choices, Boundaries, and Well-Being for Legal Professionals goals having what matters performance stress Aug 30, 2024

The Minnesota State Fair (the “Great Minnesota Get-Together”), is an annual tradition for our family, filled with all the sensory delights you could imagine—mouth-watering food, endless activities, and a vibrant atmosphere. 

The State Fair is a quintessential celebration of ever...

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Paws for Thought: Leadership and Emotional Intelligence Lessons from Our New Dog change habit mindset vulnerability Aug 23, 2024

We adopted a sweet rescue dog named Sadie. We connected with her immediately—her gentle eyes and tentative wag of the tail spoke volumes. But just as we were about to welcome her into our family, life got hectic. I had speaking engagements in Philadelphia, and then we had a famil...

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Wander and Wonder: The Science-Backed Benefits of Travel happiness self-care stress well-being Aug 16, 2024

 There’s something truly magical about stepping away from the daily grind and immersing yourself in a new place. Whether it was learning about the rich and complicated history, wandering the streets of Wittenberg, or soaking in the vibrant culture (and lots of authentic Berlin/Ge...

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Your Flight is Cancelled! Emotional Intelligence on the Go health mindset stress well-being work/life balance Aug 09, 2024

I wrote this note while traveling in Berlin, the city was still quiet, and my husband and daughters were fast asleep after a long and unexpectedly eventful journey. I had the lovely chance to enjoy some coffee and muesli as I thought about you! 

We anticipated our trip to Berlin...

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Lessons from Lifeguarding: An Approach to Legal Well-Being happiness strength stress vulnerability Jul 30, 2024

Growing up, I always worked hard in the summers. As a first-generation college student who paid my way through college and graduate school, I had to have multiple jobs every summer (and throughout the school year). 

One of my many summer jobs was a lifeguard. I worked at public ...

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